3 things your confident self NO LONGER WORRIES ABOUT.
Hey sweet thangggg!
I just wanted to pop in with some of my personal realizations + changes that I experienced when
I learned how to TRULY build confidence from the inside-out.
Here are 3 things you’ll NO LONGER need to worry about as your most badass, confident self.
1) having to play “chameleon”
right now, you’re probably trying to mould yourself to every situation around you.
Many people wear this as a badge of honour — when really it’s just drowning out your uniqueness.
Building confidence you can fully be your expressed self — and actually make DEEPER connections because of it.
Trust me, I learned this first hand.
2) competing with others
The need to compare + compete with others comes from an inner feeling of needing to PROVE yourself…
or that there is something you’re missing that they have.
But when you feel internally CONFIDENT?
You realize you are on your own journey — a unique path that is EXCITING and doesn’t need to be compared to anyone else.
sigggghhhhh … how good does that feel?!
3) sacrificing your own needs for everyone else around you
One of the biggest symptoms of lack of confidence is people pleasing.
This behaviour/need SIGNIFICANTLY reduces when you can:
a) cultivate + express healthy boundaries, and
b) learn to release the need to control or obsess over what other people do/say/think of you.
It’s no longer, “I put myself last.”
It’s…
“I take care of myself first & EVERYONE benefits from that.”
Sound like music to your ears?
I want you to know that this reality is NOT out of reach for you.
In fact, it’s closer than you think.
Check out my UNLEARN Course to become the most confident version of yourself!
Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.